When your mind-pattern is out of balance, all areas of your life are affected. Life becomes increasingly muddled, complex, and consuming. Even though it takes many weeks, months, and sometimes years for these situations to catch your attention, they usually have been building for a long time. They rarely just happen overnight. This applies to all issues, whether they are physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, career, relationship, financial, etc.
When you finally realize that you have an issue, you most likely want a quick fix. Because these situations make you feel “bad” you want someone or something to make you feel “good”—immediately!
People choose a variety of routes to achieve this “good” feeling. Some people choose allopathic medicine which suppresses the physical symptoms, or surgery, which simply cuts out the “bad stuff.” Some people choose legal or illegal mood-elevating drugs that promote a false sense of well-being.
Some people believe that if they remove specific people from their lives, that everything will be fine. Or, if they have a different job, they will be happy. Or, more money . . .this seems to be a great “problem solver.” In the minds of most people, this “healing” that they are looking for will make them “happy” once and for all. Most people think, “if only this or that was different, I would be happy.”
The majority of people are determined to find someone or something outside of themselves that will heal them or their life situation. This simply does not exist. You put yourself in a specific place in life for a reason. You did not just fall into your life. You created it one step at a time. Even if you think it was unconscious, a part of you knew exactly what was happening. This part of you allowed you to create your current circumstances. Because this part of you created your life step by step, this part of you knows how to dismantle the uncomfortable situation step by step.(cont’d)