Janet Diane Mourglia-Swerdlow

March “Changing Your Time” 03/31

March 3, 2021 You are programmed to believe that everything is limited, from the number of years your body lives to all physical resources including the planet Earth.  According to the Bible and other ancient sources, people used to live for hundreds and even thousands of years. People who feel less than, worthless and like […]

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March “Changing Your Time” 02/31

March 2, 2021 In this realty, we have a way of measuring time so that everyone can meet up at the appointed moment. But what happens after you meet at the appointed moment can be different for everyone. For example, let’s say the meeting is scheduled to last for 2 hours. One person is enthralled […]

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March “Changing Your Time” 01/31

March 1, 2021 Most people feel like they are a  slave to time. For the majority of my life I felt pressured to hurry up and get things done. When I was in elementary school, I made the 1 mile walk largely by my Self.  However, if I timed it just right as I passed […]

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February “Unconditional Love” 27/28

February 27, 2021 From my experience, I needed to learn Compassion for my Self first before I could  Love my Self conditionally or unconditionally.  In my opinion, if you do not know what Compassion is, it is challenging to know what Love is. You can say the words and go through the motions but that […]

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February “Unconditional Love” 25&26/28

February 25&26, 2021 There are planets and other realities where emotions such as you know them are nonexistent.  Some are totally without emotion; others have a variant of layers. We have discussed many times that every frequency in existence is a spectrum.  From my observation there are many layers and combinations of  like/love/unconditional love. When […]

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February “Unconditional Love” 24/28

February 24, 2021 Simply by Being your light shines on the dark corners of others.  They may not consciously know what hit them but they definitely want to stop the illumination of their darkness/pain. They attack you as an excuse to remove themselves from your life.  They want you to go away while at the […]

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February “Unconditional Love” 23/28

February 23, 2021 I had an interesting experience yesterday which definitely ties into this month’s topic.  In fact I was so disturbed I did not make a blog entry yesterday nor did I sleep well last night.  I told you that I changed hair salons as a result of the nasty and condescending treatment that […]

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February “Unconditional Love” 21&22/28

February 21&22, 2021 In the same way that many people feel Compassion for others but not Self, many feel Love for others but not for Self.  You may think others deserve Love, but you do not.  You may have what you feel are deep dark secrets by which you judge your Self.  People with these […]

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February “Unconditional Love” 20/28

February 20, 2021 Survival does not allow time for Self-reflection. You are too busy doing.  This means you are living your lesson. But once the lessons slow down you have the time to Self-evaluate and think on what you have been through.  When you are surviving you do not have time for Self-pity or contemplation.  […]

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February “Unconditional Love” 19/28

February 19, 2021 Especially when I am going through an experience  that I do not like I have learned to have Compassion for my Self.  At one time I only had Compassion for others.  I always felt I had strong shoulders so I could bear more burdens than the average person as well as more […]

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February “Unconditional Love” 18/28

February 18, 2021 I’ve thought a lot about hate because I used to think there was a lot in this world to hate.  I even used to say things like I hate it when… until I realized that this was reinforcing the fact that I hate. It took some time  but eventually I was able […]

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February “Unconditional Love” 17/28

February 17, 2021 When I was in my early 20s all roads lead to absolutely hating physical reality and everything in it.  I could barely tolerate my own existence.  When I realized the dark spiral that was taking me down, I started talking to my Self to imprint me with something better. In retrospect, I […]

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February “Unconditional Love” 16/31

February 16, 2021 Many people who cannot love anyone often respond to animals and pets.  Because animals and pets appear nonthreatening, people openly and freely express their love to the animal.  Sometimes this is not so wonderful as animals are still animals.  Sometimes people forget this and the animal can turn on the person.  More […]

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February “Unconditional Love” 14/28

February 14, 2021 One person commented that Love is  Love with which I agree. But from experience I find that the Love most people have is based upon conditions, especially for Self.  I will Love my Self when… Few people Love Self exactly as is. If you do not Love your Self exactly as is, […]

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February “Unconditional Love” 13/28

February 13, 2021 My aunt who recently passed away said that the problem with people is that they did not love each other as promoted in the Christian Bible.  She said her family growing up was cold and no one ever said I love you or hugged each other. She was trying to rectify this […]

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February “Unconditional Love” 12/28

February 12, 2021 Over the years I have heard many platitudes about loving your fellow man as  yourself so I was curious to see what would come up when I searched this phrase.  Interestingly, there were almost 93 million results, with most based on the Hebrew Torah and Christian Bible that it was impossible to […]

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February “Unconditional Love” 11/28

February 11, 2021 Until you find Compassion for your Self, it is challenging to find Compassion for these types of people. Perhaps you were not bragging but others thought you were.  I know a lot about a lot of subjects.  This doesn’t make me an expert but I can hold my own in most conversations.   […]

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February “Unconditional Love” 10/28

February 10, 2021 People with  low Self-Worth do what they need to do to make themselves feel better about who and what they are.  Thus, many people brag to others about their accomplishments because they want others to tell them how great they are.  In a way, you could look at this like a balance […]

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February “Unconditional Love” 09/28

February 9, 2021 You had very interesting comments on yesterday’s posts!  In many cultures and languages they do not ever casually say I Love You. Rather these words are reserved for serious relationships or between spouses.  Usually there is a different phrase with less intense meaning for family and friends. There are also many varied […]

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February “Unconditional Love” 08/28

February 8, 2021 I keep saying that there are so many people who preach about Love yet they have so many internal issues that they do not know what Love is. There is something about the fantasy of Love that carries people into a world that does not exist. In a way, I’m surprised that […]

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February “Unconditional Love” 07/28

February 7, 2021 When I hear about horrible things that happen to people, I feel Compassion for their journey.  Yes, we all are Self-responsible for everything we do. Yes, we all reap the consequences of all of our actions whether they are positive or negative.  Yet, I still feel Compassion for their suffering.  Sometimes I […]

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February “Unconditional Love” 06/28

February 6, 2021 I always find that it is easier to have Compassion for people I do not know or know well because they are not emotionally or geographically close enough to annoy me. I often think that this is why people who want to help poor people want to go to another country. They […]

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February “Unconditional Love” 05/28

February 5, 2021 When people started talking about all you need is love and everything will be okay, people bought into this illusion because they wanted what appeared to be a quick fix to all of life’s issues. Even now I see all kinds of posts on social media about loving each other and all […]

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February “Unconditional Love” 04/28

February 4, 2021 Right now, society is being dismantled bit by bit in a way that you will accept as normal.  While this has been in process for decades, the past year has been an extra push for people to accept the abnormal as normal.  The plannedemic has seen face masks  going from protective medical […]

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February “Unconditional Love” 03/28

February 3, 2021 When I first met Stewart via phone, it was a shock to meet someone who was so similar to my Self.  I did not think such a person could exist.  But the biggest shock was when he told me after only a couple of phone calls that I was going to have […]

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February “Unconditional Love” 02/28

February 2, 2021 There are so many concepts that sound so simple, yet illusion complicates these concepts until they look nothing like their Origins. This is why illusion must be unraveled slowly to give you the opportunity to get used to things not being what you perceive them to be.  When you are deeply ensconced […]

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February “Unconditional Love” 01/28

February 1, 2021 I was hesitant to name this blog “Unconditional Love” because it has become such a catchall phrase for highly erroneous concepts.  When I looked at this, I realized that this is exactly the reason why we need to study and explore this topic.  When you think about all the things that have […]

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January “Healing Self-Impoverishment” 31/31

January 31, 2021 If you wait until you are perfectly balanced to help others, you would be waiting a long time.  Some people use this as an excuse, saying “I’ll do it when…”  However, when you are striving forward you know when you make progress.  Now is the time to help others but only in […]

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January “Healing Self-Impoverishment” 30/31

January 30 When you give to others you acknowledge where you are not Self-impoverished.  You have enough to share. When you share you are grateful for what you have as well as grateful for having enough so you can share.  You demonstrate Selfishness by taking care of you first and Selflessness by helping others in […]

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January “Healing Self-Impoverishment” 29/31

January 29, 2021 Charities and philanthropy appear too often to be about funneling money to the rich while not really taking care of those in need. My research shows that the most effective giving is when you personally give short term and immediate relief.  You know what you are giving and how much of what […]

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January “Healing Self-Impoverishment” 28/31

January 28, 2021 The most accurate definition for Self-impoverishment/poverty  that I have heard so far is the simplest: Lack of. I came up with my idea of Poverty Relief  which I think applies to almost every person in this reality.  I think that every person, on some level, desires these attributes:   To be useful […]

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January “Healing Self-Impoverishment” 27/31

January 27, 2021 I have often thought of what I would do if money was not an issue regarding helping people.  Before I wrote my books I produced a newsletter before the Internet was born. I felt this was my way of helping people. Even as a child I wrote Sunday School lessons and submitted […]

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January “Healing Self-Impoverishment” 26/31

January 26, 2021 I find it interesting how much everyone wants others who understand them yet so many people do not want the people currently in their life. One of the most challenging visualizations I have ever done was to take the people that I liked the least, use the Brown Self-Integration/Merger Archetype and Merge […]

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January “Healing Self-Impoverishment” 25/31

January 25, 2021 Thank you for all the wonderful birthday wishes!  I’ve had a hectic but pleasant day and your heartfelt words definitely are valued and appreciated! I love the connection that everyone feels for each other here on this blog where you can express whatever is within without judgment or criticism.  Each person is […]

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January “Healing Self-Impoverishment” 24/31

January 24, 2021 When my oldest stepson was in his mid-teens I was talking about my life when I was a dairy farmer, in particular how I was glad that I did not have to work outside in the cold, snowy days of winter.  He just looked at me and said, “I’m sorry, Janet.”  I […]

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January “Healing Self-Impoverishment” 23/31

January 23, 2021 You naturally want to be and feel connected to others because there is always a part of you that knows that ultimately We Are All One.  Therefore, you do not want to be separate but here you are, in a human body, feeling separate not only from other people but from Source. […]

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January “Healing Self-Impoverishment” 22/31

January 22, 2021 When you are upset or disturbed your environment always reflects this.  After a while you get so accustomed to your disturbed environment that you stop seeing it. Your disturbed environment becomes background noise. Sometimes you see it and you are bothered by it but you do not have the motivation to do […]

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January “Healing Self-Impoverishment” 21/31

January 21 2021 I have been reading several books on poverty alleviation, all based upon Christianity, the church, congregations and congregant participation. I have also done research of people in the secular world working on poverty alleviation.  As I keep mentioning, with all the billions of dollars that are spent annually on poverty alleviation you […]

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January “Healing Self-Impoverishment” 20/31

January 20, 2021 As you already know there are some people that you cannot help.  When they stay in your life, they represent some part of you that you either cannot help or feel like you cannot help.  When you complete what you need to complete inside of you, these people must leave your life […]

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January “Healing Self-Impoverishment” 19/31

January 19, 2021 When I first realized that proactive learning was the way to go, I was always surprised when reactive learning showed up.  I truly thought I would work my way out of reactive learning.  Well, here I am decades later and reactive learning is still  a part of my life.  Yes, it has […]

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January “Healing Self-Impoverishment” 18/31

January 18, 2021 Life events often are the impetus for you to start assessing where and how you Self-impoverish. During my first marriage I merely accepted that life was what it was, I had my lot in life and I had no choice but to continue walking along my destined path.  I did not believe […]

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January ‘Healing Self-Impoverishment” 17/31

January 17 The mind-pattern of Self-impoverishment is strong and often has programming hooked into it, both societal and specific to the person. In True Reality no one can ever do anything to you, but in this reality you are strongly imprinted in all ways that the reason you do without anything is because someone, somewhere […]

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January “Healing Self-Impoverishment” 16/31

January 16, 2021 When you are Self-impoverished, generally speaking, you cannot get out too fast even though this might be exactly what you envision.  I have seen so much Self-sabotage over the years when seemingly good things happen to people. If you are not accustomed to good things happening you are going to Self-sabotage somehow, […]

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January “Healing Self-Impoverishment” 15/31

January 15 2021 I am always astounded at the lack of Self-confidence when we have in-person classes or even writing on the blog.  People are so frightened of being criticized, ridiculed or looking stupid in the eyes of others. I used to be right there with you,  so I have compassion and empathy for you. […]

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January “Healing Self-Impoverishment” 14/31

January 14, 2021 It is easy to focus on where you are Self-impoverished because these  are the areas that cause you so much pain.  I am always amazed at how someone’s negative comment that you might not even know can ruin your day. These kinds of comments stay with some people forever, tempting them to […]

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January “Healing Self-Impoverishment” 13/31

January 13, 2021 I really like the term “Spiritually deaf” from yesterday’s comments. Then the person went on to explain that this implied an impoverishment of the senses. How true this is.  This certainly explains why everyone needs glasses and hearing aids as they traverse through life. Every physical issue is some kind of perceived […]

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January “Healing Self-Impoverishment” 12/31

January 12, 2021 There is a school of thought that says that poverty exists because people do not have a relationship with their Creator. Because of this broken relationship people do not have a relationship with Self, other people or other creations. This kind of comes back to our discussion of Source First, yet people […]

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January “Healing Self-Impoverishment” 11/31

January 11, 2021 When I hear people say “Poor you” I always look at them and say “Rich me”.  They may give me an odd look, but I refuse to accept anyone calling me poor whether in jest or not.  The frequency of  the word poor implies that I lack something.  In the Eternal Now […]

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January “Healing Self-Impoverishment” 10/31

January 10, 2021 I have seen so many photos recently on social media of children collecting and giving to the homeless, from backpacks to meals to warm clothing. All the photos show the smiling child so proud of his/her accomplishment.  The child is praised, feels great for helping but there is no focus on the […]

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January “Healing Self-Impoverishment” 09/31

January 9, 2021 Technically, the Soul can never be impoverished.  When you are aware of your Origin and hold your consciousness in your Crown Chakra you feel and know the completeness of your Soul as well as the deep internal connection that can never be broken. Everything in this reality tempts you to forget your […]

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