Part 7
First, you need to go back to the age when your soul-personality allowed them to imprint it for this lifeline—usually, by the age of five or under.
Determine the underlying issues that you have with your parent(s), such as physical and/or emotional isolation, abandonment, betrayal, control, feeling powerless, lack of nurturing, etc.
Review your current life situation to determine how you are trying to work these issues out, and with/through whom or what situation.
Once you recognize that you are recreating a part of your childhood, then you can deal with it.
Place the parent figure above your head up into your Oversoul.
Allow the child who consciously did not have the tools to express his/her feelings at the time to yell, scream, kick, hit, punch, or whatever is necessary to remove these leftover emotional feelings from childhood.
Feel the flow of this energy moving up from your auric field, up through the base of your spine and out the top of your head.
Clean the emotions out of your system and give them all to your Oversoul.
As you clean, ask that your Oversoul deliver this message to the parent’s Oversoul, and from there on to the parent.
The parent will get the message in accordance with the wishes of his/her Oversoul.
Whenever any of these types of feelings arise, repeat the exercise.
This removes the mind-imprint from you, gives it to your Oversoul, cleans you up, and does not attack the other person. (cont’d)
I did this last night with my mom. It was interesting the things that came up. Today I recognized how I always found it a challenge to keep my boundaries with people. I would parentify many people that were in ‘charge’ and I found it difficult to keep my individuality, my role as an adult, and in my center. I am learning to fully take my role as a solid responsible adult.
Many people have this issue; few recognize it. Thank you!
I did this last night with my mom. It was interesting the things that came up. Today I recognized how I always found it a challenge to keep my boundaries with people. I would parentify many people that were in ‘charge’ and I found it difficult to keep my individuality, my role as an adult, and in my center. I am learning to fully take my role as a solid responsible adult.
Many people have this issue; few recognize it. Thank you!
I’ve read this a few times and have felt myself blocking myself. I thought that I had sorted things with both parents, not so. I had it so instilled in me that I had to do as I was told. I allowed others to control me by my absolute belief that what “they” said was right and correct. I know I’ve written this before so although I’m working on as Alison says, “taking my full responsibility as an adult”, I’m not there yet. I still cannot believe that I have done as I was told and never rebelled nor challenged this. It’s only now that I understand I have choices yet often slip into old habits, I shall repeat the exercise.
I’ve read this a few times and have felt myself blocking myself. I thought that I had sorted things with both parents, not so. I had it so instilled in me that I had to do as I was told. I allowed others to control me by my absolute belief that what “they” said was right and correct. I know I’ve written this before so although I’m working on as Alison says, “taking my full responsibility as an adult”, I’m not there yet. I still cannot believe that I have done as I was told and never rebelled nor challenged this. It’s only now that I understand I have choices yet often slip into old habits, I shall repeat the exercise.
Thanks Alison for bringing this up and putting it into words. I often feel that I’m still a child in the eyes of my parents. I’m still trying to seek their approval or avoid certain conflict. I feel uneasy & defensive when they give certain advice to me – even though I know it’s ‘in my best interest.’
As you learn to grow up the child within, then you can stop reacting as a child to your parents and instead start evaluating their advice as an adult. This is a huge step for most people.
Thanks Alison for bringing this up and putting it into words. I often feel that I’m still a child in the eyes of my parents. I’m still trying to seek their approval or avoid certain conflict. I feel uneasy & defensive when they give certain advice to me – even though I know it’s ‘in my best interest.’
As you learn to grow up the child within, then you can stop reacting as a child to your parents and instead start evaluating their advice as an adult. This is a huge step for most people.