Part 8
As the imprint removes from you, you release the need for the continual “trying” of working it out with someone else.
Now you are working it out with the person with whom you should be working it out—your parent, recognizing that this person is ultimately a reflection of yourself.
As the excess emotions are drained from your auric field, you can ask that your Oversoul relay any information from the parent to you via his/her Oversoul.
Discuss this with the parent in the Oversoul space above your head.
You may learn something.
Now you are in a mind-frame to objectively observe, listen, and learn.
As the emotions and logic (left-brain/right-brain) come into balance, you are finally ready to release your particular lesson back to your Oversoul, from whence it originated.
Now, you can forgive them for their part, and yourself for your part.
As the excess emotions are released from your field, and you become cleaner and clearer, your relationships can elevate themselves into their potential.
This is how you “assimilate” that mind-pattern so you can evolutionize and work on something else. (cont’d)
I’ve learned how Mum took the opportunity to marry Dad thinking there might be no-one else. This is challenging to write as I remember her saying to myself and brother, to “hurry up and choose or you’ll be left with the rotten apples in the barrel”. I knew when I was marrying my husband that this wasn’t right but had no idea how to get out of the situation. I’ve learned that in the birthing process I decided that this wasn’t a good idea but couldn’t get back. When I was born I was a crushed down version of my Dad, this always felt as if I had done something wrong.
What I’ve gleaned from Mum is that she married Dad as she felt trapped; they got along because divorce was rare at that time, “you make your bed, you lie in it”; she wanted to accomplish so much more so she was frustrated. She always said she was coming back as a man.
It’s interesting that I have followed a similar pattern to Mum until I divorced my husband. I have the opportunity to release these mind-patterns and move on, for me, moving away is very symbolic.
You took a huge step your mother could not do. You are breaking the family cycles and demonstrating within your family lineage how to self-empower. An enormous task, when you think about it…
I’ve learned how Mum took the opportunity to marry Dad thinking there might be no-one else. This is challenging to write as I remember her saying to myself and brother, to “hurry up and choose or you’ll be left with the rotten apples in the barrel”. I knew when I was marrying my husband that this wasn’t right but had no idea how to get out of the situation. I’ve learned that in the birthing process I decided that this wasn’t a good idea but couldn’t get back. When I was born I was a crushed down version of my Dad, this always felt as if I had done something wrong.
What I’ve gleaned from Mum is that she married Dad as she felt trapped; they got along because divorce was rare at that time, “you make your bed, you lie in it”; she wanted to accomplish so much more so she was frustrated. She always said she was coming back as a man.
It’s interesting that I have followed a similar pattern to Mum until I divorced my husband. I have the opportunity to release these mind-patterns and move on, for me, moving away is very symbolic.
You took a huge step your mother could not do. You are breaking the family cycles and demonstrating within your family lineage how to self-empower. An enormous task, when you think about it…
Awesome information. It is helping me very much. I have made huge strides in my relationship with my Father, these last couple of years.
Awesome information. It is helping me very much. I have made huge strides in my relationship with my Father, these last couple of years.
I am seeing the process and ‘knowing by knowing’ of this way of releasing. I am observing my actions and I am more aware of my dynamics so I don’t have to play the same ‘scene’ out all the time. I am changing my course.
I am seeing the process and ‘knowing by knowing’ of this way of releasing. I am observing my actions and I am more aware of my dynamics so I don’t have to play the same ‘scene’ out all the time. I am changing my course.
In one of the recent blog posts there was a reference to the PPV Abuse and Cults podcast. I watched it over the weekend, and agree how cult programming and abuse programming are similar and same. Also, would like to thank Janet for sharing personal history, my heart went out to you. You’ve come a long way. I would love to know more about how you got rid of your ex post humously. That report is fascinating. When my ex sister in law passed away some years ago, she attacked me before going fully beyond. I don’t remember exactly how I handled it, but she finally did go completely away. My dad wreaked havoc awhile after he left the planet, too. For you to have dealt with this deceased ex so long, I’m sure you have stories and methods to share on how to change color, tone, archetype in order to get the discarnate to leave. That concept stayed with me from watching the video–color, tone, archetype. Fascinating stuff.
I’m glad you were able to watch and learn. The most important thing is to find out what inside of YOU holds those passed on and release this from Self. It was a process for me, although I think he checks in from time to time we don’t seem to have the same trouble that we did.
In one of the recent blog posts there was a reference to the PPV Abuse and Cults podcast. I watched it over the weekend, and agree how cult programming and abuse programming are similar and same. Also, would like to thank Janet for sharing personal history, my heart went out to you. You’ve come a long way. I would love to know more about how you got rid of your ex post humously. That report is fascinating. When my ex sister in law passed away some years ago, she attacked me before going fully beyond. I don’t remember exactly how I handled it, but she finally did go completely away. My dad wreaked havoc awhile after he left the planet, too. For you to have dealt with this deceased ex so long, I’m sure you have stories and methods to share on how to change color, tone, archetype in order to get the discarnate to leave. That concept stayed with me from watching the video–color, tone, archetype. Fascinating stuff.
I’m glad you were able to watch and learn. The most important thing is to find out what inside of YOU holds those passed on and release this from Self. It was a process for me, although I think he checks in from time to time we don’t seem to have the same trouble that we did.