Part 4
You may think that if you could only go somewhere else, you would be “healed”. Maybe you think your “healer” is a geographic location. While, again, this can be a crutch/aid/support, ultimately, you are the only one who can heal you.
If you allow someone or something to “heal” you, then you will only re-create the situation somewhere else with someone or something else .Until you change, nothing else truly changes. You can run, but you cannot hide anywhere. You are the creator and the healer.
Never put anyone on a pedestal. Everyone is always equal. If someone says that he/she can “heal” you, think twice, and then twice more, and if you still are not sure, you better continue your evaluation process. No one ever successfully heals another.
Do yourself a favor—declare yourself your own best and true healer. Gather your tools; prepare to do your work. Stay focused and maintain your Self, Oversoul, and God-Mind connection. Your path becomes narrower and also more defined. More boundaries, more rules, more success. There is nothing like triumph from within, a step at a time. These are the lessons from which you learn; these are the lessons that you remember; these are the experiences you finally and ultimately, complete. The secret to being healed is realizing who the healer really is.
The End.
Thank you for this article Janet, i very much enjoyed it!
I am glad that it is meaningful for you 🙂
Thank you for this article Janet, i very much enjoyed it!
I am glad that it is meaningful for you 🙂
I do believe that true healers help people to help themselves as you and Stewart do. I think because of all my abandonment issues I did feel lost for a long time and suffered and did not feel connected to my self or God and just kept searching outside of myself for the answer. I know the answer is not “out there” now..perhaps not all the time such as when I find myself looking for approval. .at least I am aware of where that comes from and I am grateful for that awareness. If I didn’t have that I wouldn’t be able to move forward.
Lately I have been creating my own affirmations along with yours( that I try to read each day). I have really been trying to be my best at work and have gotten acknowledged several times the past several weeks at work by my manager for my “performance”. By my best I mean being the best hostess and coworker I can be and coming from the mind pattern that I have something to offer and give in this world. Something is shining through. I also have been working on the fear I have around my Dad. Someone who is intuitive brought this part of my life up to look at a little closer and I have been trying to do that. In line with your affirmation the other day I observed that I have let him have a lot of space in my mind and as a result “I” have allowed myself to shrink.
On a lighter note I have been keeping my car, my bedroom and bathroom clean and it has been easy.
Anyway thanks for all you have taught me and for myself for being “teachable”!
That is so wonderful that you are creating and personalizing affirmations for your unique situations AND clearly seeing results! How encouraging and inspiring to keep going! I think you are “turning your boat”! Thank you for sharing! 🙂
I do believe that true healers help people to help themselves as you and Stewart do. I think because of all my abandonment issues I did feel lost for a long time and suffered and did not feel connected to my self or God and just kept searching outside of myself for the answer. I know the answer is not “out there” now..perhaps not all the time such as when I find myself looking for approval. .at least I am aware of where that comes from and I am grateful for that awareness. If I didn’t have that I wouldn’t be able to move forward.
Lately I have been creating my own affirmations along with yours( that I try to read each day). I have really been trying to be my best at work and have gotten acknowledged several times the past several weeks at work by my manager for my “performance”. By my best I mean being the best hostess and coworker I can be and coming from the mind pattern that I have something to offer and give in this world. Something is shining through. I also have been working on the fear I have around my Dad. Someone who is intuitive brought this part of my life up to look at a little closer and I have been trying to do that. In line with your affirmation the other day I observed that I have let him have a lot of space in my mind and as a result “I” have allowed myself to shrink.
On a lighter note I have been keeping my car, my bedroom and bathroom clean and it has been easy.
Anyway thanks for all you have taught me and for myself for being “teachable”!
That is so wonderful that you are creating and personalizing affirmations for your unique situations AND clearly seeing results! How encouraging and inspiring to keep going! I think you are “turning your boat”! Thank you for sharing! 🙂